You Are Not Alone
Pornography addiction is an epidemic around the world. It is not only a man’s problem, but millions of women are also impacted by pornography whether they themselves are addicted or they are involved with someone dealing with a sexual addiction.
You do not have to fall prey to the lure of porn or be the victim of the addict in your life. There is a way of escape. And we can help. We know it hurts. The pain is real. And it is mostly taboo to discuss in our culture, especially our Christian circles. We know exactly how this feels. We lived with the agony of Phil’s 40-year porn addiction the first 33 years of our marriage. I was married to a porn addict. I’m Bobi Naukam. And I wrote this book for you.
When we ask young people what they think about pornography, the majority answer with, “It’s normal.” Just because a lot of people do something does not make it normal or good for you. PORN IS NOT NORMAL! Sadly, our culture promotes the message that your identity is in your sexuality. That is a lie! Your body is God’s beautiful creation; you are so much more than a sexual being. You have an amazing brain, a purpose for your being alive right now, and the Spirit of God lives in you, yes you.
Pornography promotes the LIE that you are desired, care for, and special only when you engage in the fantasy world of porn. Truth – the porn industry is a business, a very lucrative business. It’s all about the money. The purveyors of the sex industry care nothing about you as a person. They want you to keep coming back to deepen your addiction so that you pay more and more to satisfy that need they have produced.
You were created to be in relationship with God and with other people, not fake images on a screen or performers at a club. The porn industry makes tens of billions of dollars each year from people who buy the substitute instead of enjoying a healthy relationship with real people.
Reach out to those who care and want to walk with you on your journey to freedom. We, Phil and Bobi, personally know the battle; we know the way out. And we want to help you. Contact us if you want to talk or pray. We care. God’s love is the way to freedom, and it is free!