Porn Addiction.  Kills Love.  But It’s Not Game-Over.


What if…Porn is a symptom that something much deeper is wrong?

Pornography is like a festering sore signaling that beneath your flesh is a deadly cancer that requires surgery, not merely a Band-Aid.  If you are irritated, angry, or ashamed about the porn cancer, we understand.  Phil loved the life of a porn addict for 40 years.  Bobi coped with the pain of the anger and hatred thrust upon her and the family due to the addiction.  But God set them and their family free and healed them deep down inside where the insidious cancer of porn and all its horrible side-effects began.

You can be free, too.  Connect with battle-scarred warriors who have fought the fight and won!  The battle is challenging and painful at times, but the prize is worth all your effort.  Joy, health, peace, genuine love, true relationships, and rest await you.  Let the REAL you emerge from the darkness that has controlled you.  God changed us, Phil and Bobi.  He wants to transform you, too.  We want to help.  With Jesus, we all can experience His freedom.  He gives hope.  He offers healing.  He provides a better life.


What if…the deeper issue is rebellion, pride, and lust?

It’s the original sin of Lucifer himself.  These have polluted the very air we breathe since the fall in the Garden of Eden.  Yes, without Jesus, we are all infected and dying.  But with Jesus, we can experience His freedom.  There is hope.  There is healing.  There is a better life.

What if…freedom from porn is possible for you?

It is!  The road is hard.  It takes guts.  It requires surrender.  It demands real friends, and we are real friends.  We help men and women find the road to freedom.  We can help you, because we lived under the pain and shame of porn and all its consequences for many years.  With God’s help, we are healed and restored.

We understand the battle, and we know the way out.  Reach out to us.  Let’s chat and pray.  Buy our books for detailed strategies.  If you’ve read this far, you have already taken an important step on your way to freedom.  Don’t quit.  Keep going one step at a time.  We are praying for you.

Phil and Bobi Naukam

Our Story

Phil and Bobi met and married while in college.  Upon graduation, Phil became a pilot in the United States Air Force, and Bobi enjoyed the life of a career officer’s wife and stay-at-home mom.

The fairytale life she dreamed about quickly turned into a nightmare.  The first 33 years of their marriage was filled with turmoil and pain.  She turned to God for help and healing of low self-esteem, co-dependency, control, manipulation, depression, pride, and a host of other issues.  Phil dove deeper into his pornography addiction.  It was a long, slow process; but God worked miracles in both their lives.  Eventually, Phil was set free from porn addiction, and God taught Bobi to become the woman of God that she wanted to be.

Their marriage restored, Bobi began writing and teaching about how Father God worked in her life.  Today, both of them mentor hurting people, prepare young people to fight the war on integrity and sexual purity, and travel around the country sharing the miracle story of their restoration.

Phil and Bobi are licensed ministers through Believer’s Church and World Outreach in Tulsa, Oklahoma.  They speak to groups of all ages and especially enjoy enabling youth pastors, young people, and their parents to develop strategies for winning the war on integrity and sexual purity.   They would love to share with your church or group.  Just ask.


Phil and Bobi Naukam are licensed ministers through Believer’s Church World Outreach in Tulsa, Oklahoma.  They facilitate seminars promoting marriage restoration; speak to groups of all ages; and enable youth pastors, young people, and their parents to develop strategies for winning the war on integrity and sexual purity.

Bobi & Phil Naukam


Phil and Bobi speak at conferences, churches, and small groups.  If you are interested in having Phil and/or Bobi share at your next event, please contact us.

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